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    13 hours ago

    Finally i have a way to explain my feeling about this. This is just yelp for people. Yet another attempt to rate people. Didn’t Candance owebs try to make something like this years ago but for reporting racists?

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    There is a video in the article, where a a woman says “are we dating the same guy?”. Like women don’t date multiple men.

    Apart form that, things never say secret, soon or later will come out.

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    Back in the Google Glass days, I theorized that it wouldn’t be long before you could look at a person walking down the street and near instantaneously have a full profile of that individual, their age and address and family and everything, with Yelp-style reviews commenting on how the subject is a huge dick, or has a huge dick, or kicks puppies, etc. “Free”, of course, encumbered only by ads for bullshit dating services, and with just the minor inconvenience of full access to every goddamn piece of data on your phone.

    I am only surprised that this kinda shit hasn’t happened much much earlier.

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      23 hours ago

      I think some student used AI along with the Meta sunglasses with cameras to do exactly this and it’s creepy how much info about you is just out there

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      22 hours ago

      Or if this was targeted at virtually any other category of people

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        Yeah, my thoughts were having people encouraged to add on information they know on top of public information is a gold mine for governments. Someone could opt out of social media and not even have a phone or computer, but now you could have citizens themselves creating profiles on their behalf and providing information on individuals like political leanings. People are just thinking dating because that is what the site is about.

        But, my thoughts went to how a site could do the same for whether someone is legal or not, whether they are pro government or not, etc.

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    Kinda wild that app stores allow something like that. I wonder how long it’ll take for someone to build the same up, but with the roles reversed: Men anonymously talking about local women 😬

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      In theory it should be fine the problem is women always assume bad intent on the part of men, and good intent on the part of other women despite a fairly obvious fact that that’s ridiculous.

      The problem is there doesn’t seem to be any system in place for review or correction. What if there someone who just doesn’t like me and posts photos and lies about me? Not only would I have no opportunity to correct the record, but unless someone I knew who was on the app told me about it, I wouldn’t even know because men aren’t allowed on.

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        As someone who’s stayed away from creating accounts like Facebook the concept of being encouraged to share photos and real identities of people who haven’t consented to being on the social media site is really creepy to me.

        Its like some random social media account shows up and you never signed up but a profile for you has already been made and has all these photos you never even shared on there because someone chose to upload them in your place.

        I’d rather people choose not to associate with people who don’t have an account that has vetted on safety than be opted into something like this without choice.

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          Its like some random social media account shows up and you never signed up but a profile for you has already been made and has all these photos you never even shared on there because someone chose to upload them in your place.

          Facebook literally does this, they just never let you see it, it’s internal for advertising purposes

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      There was a forum in the Benelux that did exactly that and they had to shut down.

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    Oh great another centralized repository of data about people (uploaded without their knowledge or consent in the case of the men) that definitely won’t be abused by bad actors

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    “What clubs does he go to?” another person asked on a different post. “He’s cute.”

    Clubs? Are we in the 90ies?

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    Someone saw that Black Mirror episode and said “Let’s make that for real.”

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    Huh…

    Part of these types of things generally seem like a well-intentioned idea, but it’s also so creepy, scammy, and gross. This data won’t stop here by any means, and will be sold or used in a million different even shittier ways. Pretty fucked.

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      yeah, well-intentioned things tend to go sour when exposed to the glow of anonymity on the internet. Starts off innocent, and goes downhill fast.

      The creator, Sean, stating that he started this app as a reaction to the online dating scene his mother experienced, seems fine: an anti-catfishing app would be great.

      To give the devil their due, the data they collect might also be valuable as data on how women discuss men online, which at a cursory glance seems to favor far more hyperbole than I see in everyday life.

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        Don’t these companies know how to properly configure a database? This seemed like it was completely preventable.

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          You think a company paddling gossip under the guise of “woman safety” would care about protecting personal information? 🤣

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          Lots of breaches are entirely preventable, but lots of companies don’t like to pay for qualified employees that could prevent them.

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          Starting salary for a cyber security expert is around 70,000€ and that’s for someone who’s relatively inexperienced so you would probably want to pay more like 90,000€, for these startups that’s seven or eight employees worth of salary and they don’t want to pay it.

          The problem is it leads to things like this happening which kills their entire company.

          Or they could do what they’re doing now which is work with a consultancy company which doesn’t cost anywhere near as much money but still costs quite a bit.

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            Don’t worry I’m sure the owner has already pocketed $10m in investor money and is currently parachuting away to plan their next fuckup